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The Front of the Bus

Today, I had an interesting experience on public transportation I like to share. I was seated upfront on one of our local buses here in Atlanta. When the driver pulled up to a bus stop, there was a guy waiting for the front door to open. I noticed as the doors open he hesitated to come in. While looking at the driver the man seemed like was deciding as to whether or not he was going to catch the bus. Reluctantly he climbed up the steps and came in uttering the word “Dam”!

As he put his money into the fare slot, the patron shook his head left and right as though he was disgusted. It made me wonder if he and the driver had beef earlier. I got my answer when he set down. The man said, “They are everywhere now; they are taking control of the world, deciding if you can get on or off. Ever since Obama got in control, they control the army, they control marriage and which bathrooms they will go in."

I’m sure by now you know who the “they” are what he’s talking about. Although I know homophobia when I see it, nothing could have prepared me to think the man’s beef would hang on to the driver’s sexual orientation. The beef he had probably had earlier might have had something to do with some fare issue earlier and the driver’s handling of it. From the incident, the rider’s opinion would be, the driver is gay. (By the way, my “gaydar” had detected the driver is gay.)

What I found profound in the rider’s comments is his awareness, gays are taking control but unbeknown to him, gays are taking control of their “equal rights, in pursuit of happiness as citizens in the United States, “One nation Under God”! Major progress has been made for the gay community in the past eight years through the Federal Government and the U.S. Supreme Court.

I believe as a by-product of the three branches of government embracing human rights as “Civil Rights”. However, it doesn’t mean “we made it” as a number of people think Blacks have because we have an “African American” President of the United States.

The rider’s homophobic comment brought to the surface something that is hidden before our eyes. It’s astonishing the number of celebrities, athletes and LGBT in general who openly acknowledge their sexual orientation without apology! They are all paving a way for common LGBT folks to be accepting of their sexual orientation.

To Loan or not to Take a Loan is the Question

"Neither a borrower nor a lender be;
For loan oft loses both itself and friend,
And borrowing dulls the edge of husbandry.
This above all: to thine own self be true,
And it must follow, as the night the day,
Thou canst not then be false to any man."

(That saying was taken from a soliloquy by Polonius in Act I, Scene 3 of William Shakespeare's Hamlet. Polonius is giving advice to his son Laertes before Laertes heads back to school. Here is more of the quote.)

True, there are all types of loans but for argument sake this conversation we’re going to talk about loaning money. First, we’re going to explore personal loans and then acquiring business loans for a new business.

I don’t think there’s not one of us living or dead who has not borrowed and/or loan money to another human being. Many of us have gotten back or paid back all or most of the money we have loaned. And, there are those of us who have loaned money and gotten it all back but not in a timely fashion. Still there are those of us who haven’t gotten one red cent, however have gotten an attitude from the borrower questioning why we bothered to ask for our money back!

You might be wondering if I had a recent experience of loaning money for bringing up this subject. No, nothing just happen other than me watching another reality court show of civil court friends and family suing over a loan. It made me think about the two line of Shakespeare’s soliloquy "Neither a borrower nor a lender be; For loan oft loses both itself and friend".

Strangely enough, the soliloquy two versus triggered a statement made by billionaire Mark Cuban about getting a loan to start a business. Mr. Cuban said "Only morons start a business on a loan?". Upon first glance at his statement one might be turned off by the name-calling and thinking how can you start a business without borrowing money. However, if you can get pass “morons” and dig deeper, what Mark said about taking out a loan to start a business makes sense!

Gil Silberman, who’s founded many startups and advised hundreds of entrepreneurs, explains Mark’s statement. Mr. Silberman states "He's talking about bank loans, and a relatively small class of innovative startup businesses that are trying to achieve something new and go big with it. For those businesses, a loan debt is a cash drain that makes it harder for the business to succeed, and is typically secured by a personal guarantee and collateral on the part of the entrepreneur who takes the loan, which greatly increases the risk".

Gil continues "Small business administration loans, for example, are very conservative, they do require personal guarantees, and they usually want to cross-collateralize the loan against every other business and real estate the borrower owns, which means they are risking personal financial collapse for themselves and their family. That sort of debt will hurt their chances of obtaining cash from any other source, either personally or as a business".

Gay Black Men

Gay Black men have been in long time relationships for a long time. How does it happen? I believe it requires staying out of the limelight of the “Gay seductive Lifestyle” (i.e. excessive partying, sexual promiscuity) and creating a personal lifestyle of your own. What are your thoughts? Below is a video of such a relationship, Lewis Duckett and Billy Jones:

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Love is Love

Love is in the air for Gay Men of Color and those who are into them and gay men all over. However, some men believe it’s over for them for whatever reason. Whether it be past failed relationships, ageism, or having low self-esteem too many men and women wanting a same-sex relationship are growing old alone! Below is a composition created by Author, Philanthropist, & Actor AnDerecco. Sit back and enjoy his Vision of Love 2016. It is our hope this video will inspire something within you to get back in the art of dating. Grand Prize Singles Experience, LLC vision coincides with the world of being in love. Please join us when we open!